Life in the USA

 

  1. Don’t Panic! At the beginning things will most likely not work out the way you want them to. There are about a billion things that might not meet your expectations.
    - Your new home might not look as expected - many Americans like to furnish and decorate their room in a way Germans consider conservative.
    - Your hostfamily behaves differently from your parents at home. They may have unusual interests and other expectations in you as their new family member.
    - You will not make friends the first day or the first weeks of school. This does not mean that people don’t like you. They just need some time to adjust as well. Try not to force things. Maybe you can start off by joining some friendly looking people from one of your classes for lunch. Be prepared to spend the first weekends with your host family.
    - You may not understand all of what is talked about in class or the homework you are given. No problem, all you need to do is sit back, relax and try your best. Noone expects you to be an expert of the English language right from the start. Maybe you can inform your teachers of the difficulties you are having. As time passes by I promise your language skills will quickly improve.

     
  2. Let people know when you are feeling homesick or if you are having any other problems. Try talking to a member of you host family, your local coordinator, other exchange students or a friend from school. Your family and friends at home should be the very last contact persons in those cases.

     
  3. Don’t back out of life! Even if you feel like hiding in your room you should try to ignore those emotions and take on every opportunity you are offered to leave the house.